A Review Study on the role of Helicopter Parenting in competitive societies and its effect on Children's Autonomy and Self-Esteem

Abstract

The current research explores the phenomenon of helicopter parenting within the competitive societal context of India, examining its impact on children's autonomy and self-esteem. Utilizing a theoretical framework grounded in Self-Determination Theory, Erikson’s Psychosocial Development Theory, and Social Comparison Theory, the study highlights how overprotective parenting practices, driven by intense societal and parental expectations, can stifle children's independence and contribute to identity confusion, diminished self-efficacy, and reliance on external validation. The analysis revealed that while helicopter parenting may stem from a desire to ensure success and well-being, it often leads to adverse psychological outcomes for children, particularly in environments where academic and career achievements are heavily emphasized. To address this issue, the research recommends a balanced approach to parenting that supports autonomy while providing appropriate guidance. Strategies such as fostering open communication, trust-building, and gradual independence granting are suggested to help parents and educators mitigate the negative effects of helicopter parenting.